Well, on the day that I am feeling mostly emotionally vulnerable (given the recent losses in our lives), DH's company has finally announced the location of the new OM-OD HQs. And it is in Boca Raton, FL, where we do not live. That means that in the near future, DH will be unemployed. We have known that this was a strong possibility and I've worked with the budget and have Plans A and B and scenarios, etc.
But, the possibility is now reality. Not quite "Well, if it happens" but "When it happens." There really isn't much to do - could take another six weeks to two months - severance and 1/2 a bonus will be about 3-1/2 month living expenses.
The kids' Christmas gifts are done. Our gift buying circle is small and almost done. I managed to get DH a new warm Columbia coat free after Kohl's cash.
My parents were going to buy me book cases for my family room for Christmas. Do you think it is tacky to just ask for cash?
I kept back $96 cash of my birthday money (from November) for After Christmas sales, but I'll give some of it to DH to buy a Christmas gift for me. I've stressed to the kids the importance of kindness to their Advent Buddies (our Catholic version of Secret Santa) - I think we'll limit that to shopping only at FIVE BELOW. Our Christmas card list is going to be shortened. I wanted to start a new stitching project and will check out the free patterns at DMC-USA.
I think that I'll be going off radar for awhile. I need some time away from technology and stuff to redirect my efforts and energy. I will see you all in 2014 with hopefully a clearer plan to share and maybe some goals? Though I imagine it will simply be for self-sufficiency.
It is my sincerest wish that you all have a truly wonderful holiday season abundant with the blessings that only family and friends and good health can bring! Merry Christmas to my fellow Christians!
See you after the calendar page turns.
Edited to add: My mom and stepdad, after hearing of the certainty of unemployment, came over with a gallon of chocolate milk and a big bag of Babybell cheese (a splurge that I occasionally buy). Oh, to learn to smile and be happy with small indulgences ... instead I started to cry, and I HATE it when anyone sees me cry *sigh*
Definitely on an emotional rollercoaster right now. Prayers are appreciated.
The uncertainty is now certain ... and Unemployment is on the horizon
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DH needs to register on LinkedIn and all the other electronic job sites. He needs to use every bit of support and networking offered by the employer and community. If there are any cost assisted courses or educational updates/upgrades shove him out-the-door. Everyone you know needs to know he is seeking employment as more positions are filled by referral than by other means. It might be necessary to take short term contract work or something new and different. If DH has any skill sets conducive to self employment, the tax benefits are worth the effort. I'm confident this will all work out for the best.
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We will be thinking about you. Have a wonderful Christmas.
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You have my best wishes and prayers that DH gets future employment and for Christmas joy, with health and happiness in the New Year.
Take care.
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Happy holidays to you and your family!
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