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Hoping for a happy day ...

December 10th, 2013 at 01:58 pm

Boy, it has been a rough couple of days. Lots of sadness mixed in with happiness and I'm sort of feeling the fatigue of the emotional roller-coaster.
Right after Thanksgiving, my ex-stepmother died. I've had several and she was the most mother-like, always nice to me, and whenever I saw her in the past ten years after the divorce, she was always fun and happy. She didn't have an easy go it, losing her son in a tragic accident, having my father as a whack-a-doodle husband, and the having her sister die. THEN my Godmother's father died the Sunday after Thanksgiving. He was 90, but always a happy little Italian man who loved me and my girls at family functions. And then this past Sunday, my husband's Great Aunt died. From the estranged branch of the family, but I always liked her and admired her character for retiring early (as the youngest unmarried sibling) who then just took of her older unmarried siblings who needed care (from Alzheimer's and Parkinsons, etc). Anyhow, there will no funeral or wake for her because ... I don't know why. I am having her acknowledged at a school Mass as belonging to our family. I am just too saddened by the whole fact that she was here and isn't and there is only a cremation with no service. So that has taken a huge emotional toll.

But then throw in some really fun things: dinner with the newly weds who are family friends, who loved my 6t grader's basketball game; my kids' first viewing of "The Christmas Story" on large screen. Shopping at Target for the Adopt-a-Family children in my 9th grader's homeroom (spent more than budgeted and didn't even feel bad), my youngest loves to give $1 to the Salvation Army bell ringers and I love that about him. Hot chocolate and Christmas carols.

My equilibrium is totally thrown. It isn't fun being dysthymic around the holidays!

It is horribly cold here (read that as: 1 degree). I am still caring for my brother's dogs, going over for breakfast and dinner and DH does the evening walk. I think I'm heading back to bed because I am tired.

On a money note, I received the $200 gift cards from Target (after the purchase of several ipods for Christmas gifts), so I am going to sit down with their ads and my coupons and see if I can make it til Christmas (taking into account a ham and other fixings for dinner, and baking needs). We've just finished the last of the leftovers from our Italian dinner on Friday, and it's meatloaf today.

Also, my girls are switching Irish Dance schools which will present a savings over what we are paying and they're going back to twice a week. Happy about that ...

All for now - if you're still with me, thanks for following the brain dump.

6 Responses to “Hoping for a happy day ...”

  1. Joan.of.the.Arch Says:

    I am glad to hear about what goodness your husband's Great Aunt had in her. Your telling us about her places a beam of light into our world today. We wouldn't have that without her. Now, December 10 2013, she is thought of thankfully by we who never met her.

  2. creditcardfree Says:

    The good memories are what help during difficult times. ((Hugs)) to you Laura.

  3. laura Says:

    Thanks, Joan. You made my day happy.

    Thanks, ccf, too.

    I woke up from a nap feeling a bit better! Tired and sappy don't go well together.

  4. Kiki Says:

    What wonderful tributes to those who you've lost.

  5. FrugalTexan75 Says:

    I'm sorry for your losses. {{{hugs}}}

  6. PauletteGoddard Says:

    I can't imagine dysthymia being fun at any time (I have it too). Condolences on your loss and Merry Christmas.

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