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May 23rd, 2012 at 09:07 pm


For the first time in a month, I needed to use the credit card. American Express, so no long-term debt incurred, but a credit card nonetheless. Frown Seems that I ran out of money about two days early (money comes in on Friday). Totally unexpected expense of "buddy" gifts for my 1st and 8th graders to exchange with their respective buddies ($20) and a sick child necessitated more ibuprofin to which DH bought the biggest bottle at $13.99.

Spring Sing is upcoming: parent show tomorrow, then two performances on Friday for the VIPs in the kids' lives. I like this better than the Christmas show.

Volunteer work is draining me, making me very weary on top of the already chaotic busyness of this time of year. I have to chair a meeting tonight because my counterpart is in the ER with kidney stones. Obviously not her fault, but the timing is bad. So I have to dash off an agenda and ... I'm making some major decisions on some things. I've upgraded my title from co-coordinator to Director, in my mind only. Smile

Remember my "friend" who attacked all of my parenting decisions several months back? Well, we're past the animosity, and being very civil dealing with the Field Day, year end picnic. She is at her wits end with her oldest (in 7th grade) who made a poor decision and badly handled helping her 4th grade sister with volleyball practice. "Friend" made her daughter walk home 3.8 miles. My daughter is concerned with this and while the girls haven't socialized in months (since the tirade of the mother), I'm feeling like it might be a good idea, but then again I'm not sure about it. Apparently, "friend's husband" said he feared someone might call DCFS after hearing this. I don't know what to do.

Looking forward to a quiet 3-day weekend thought the girls have a school competition on Sunday and my mom is having a cookout on Monday. Time to relax before the hubub of all the graduation activities.

Off to catch up on posts!

7 Responses to “Keep on keeping on”

  1. Joan.of.the.Arch Says:
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    Is the end of year buddy gift a custom at the school? If so, I can imagine a number of families would not care for the custom.

  2. PNW Mom Says:
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    Wow! And she attacked YOUR parenting skills? Ugh! Poor girl....I feel bad for her Frown

  3. M E 2 Says:
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    Is making a 12/13 year old walk 3.8 miles a reasonable punishment? IMO, no.


    Better question being is it really any of your business? Once again, IMO, no.

  4. laura Says:
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    Is it any of my business?

    The child is walking on the side of a five lane major road (two lanes each direction with a turning lane) where there are no sidewalks and the posted speed limit is 50 mph. The child also has to cross over a bridge that is a highway overpass that has entrances and exits on both sides. There are lights for vehicles, but no pedestrian crossing signals. The child has to walk past a very busy mall with major traffic in and out, again no pedestrian crossing signals or sidewalks. And her child is clearly a Catholic school girl in a plaid skirt with a backpack, easy target for weird-os, IMO.

    I worry for this child because her mother has put her hands on her in the past, requiring some reworking of dental work (retainer) and "friend" having to have shots because the metal broke her skin.

    So, really my business? Probably not, but I do worry and am concerned for the safety of her child.

  5. Joanne Says:
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    Not my business either but, Having a young girl like that walk taht distance is not safe, or appropriate in my two cent opinion. It is lucky that nothing happened. Yes, children do act up, and get on parents nerves, but the Mom needs to explore other ways to deal with this. {Again, just my cheap opinion.} Also, putting hands on the 12 yr. old will not help the situation, it might even escalate it. It sounds as if the Dad should step in here, and try some communication. Again, I know that kids can be frustrating @ times.. And, I used to wear one of those Catholic school uniforms, & I would not want my child wqalking in it.. Hope that this gets resolved more peacefully. It"s good that you are concerned, in my opinion...

  6. rob62521 Says:
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    Sounds like that parent overeacted by making the child walk so far alone and on a dangerous road...I really feel sorry for that child. It's good that you are concerned and keeping an eye on the situation.

  7. SicilyYoder Says:
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    Laura,
    You're so sweet to volunteer so much. I try to help the food bank by getting them milk, meat, and cheese from Aldi. Sometimes it seems as if there aren't enough hours in the day.

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