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How does this sound?

August 14th, 2012 at 06:40 pm

to be attached with "Mary Hunt's Debt-Proof Living" book (purchased at Books-a-Million)

Dear *R*,

I've given some thought to your hope that I'd help you get your finances "on the road". I'm here to give you some advice on the things that worked for me, and I've found some great practical advice on how to handle things from this book. I don't think that things will automatically turn around in one fell swoop, but I do think that you should see some relief if you implement these small things on a daily basis.

I'm not comfortable with giving any specific advice. Our situations are entirely different (single gal versus stay-at-home mom), and ultimately only you know what your deep down goals are. How I allot my money (taking into account educating everyone) (our number one concern right now) will be different than how you allot yours.

I think that it would be wise to return to (previous job) if the position is still available simply because you know what you are returning to (and you'll be 2 minutes from *M* for *D* in case of emergency Smile ) Granted the money isn't the same, but you'll have some peace of mind. I also think it is a good idea to see about rooming with *H*, that arrangement makes a lot of sense, too. Of course, you know that I'll help you move wherever and encourage you wherever you decide to work; it is just my opinion that sameness and stability is what you need now.

So, since I'd like to revisit Mary Hunt, maybe we can do a book club at Panera's? Next time, my treat.

Me

6 Responses to “How does this sound?”

  1. North Georgia Gal Says:
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    Sounds good to me!

  2. PNW Mom Says:
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    Sounds good...you are not blowing her off but giving encouragement and "some" advice. Also stating that your situations are different will hopefully help her to see that SHE needs to take control of her life and see what SHE needs to do. You are a good friend!

  3. ceejay74 Says:
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    Great job. Very diplomatic, and actually gives her a path to helping herself if she's serious about that.

  4. creditcardfree Says:
    1344973485

    If she is motivated this time, it might be exactly what she needs. I think it sounds great!!

  5. My English Castle Says:
    1344981345

    Very diplomatic!

  6. FrugalTexan75 Says:
    1344989263

    I like it!

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