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Just one of those days when money really doesn't seem to matter

January 13th, 2011 at 04:21 pm


I'm feeling down today.

A blogging friend had a massive stroke yesterday at age 40. Not sure of her prognosis after surgery to alleviate the swelling. She's lost some of her functioning on the right side. No responding on the left side. (Joanne Heim at the simple wife typepad)

A father of my dancing daughters' classmate died after a long battle with cancer.

There is the whole thing about the tragedy in Arizona.

There is the whole thing about the weather in Australia.

I have a daughter home sick today. I have to go to the dentist (major challenge for me) and I feel stupid that I'm afraid.

I argued with my husband over stupid stuff this morning.

I must remind myself that life is good. God is great. Our lives unfold as they do. I don't know why all of this is taking a huge toll on me mentally today. I have many blessings. I have healthy and happy children. I have a hard-working loving husband. I have friends and family who are alive and well.

I'm really just feeling down.

16 Responses to “Just one of those days when money really doesn't seem to matter”

  1. creditcardfree Says:
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    I'm sorry you are down. I hope you can find the strength make it through at the dentist and find a new outlook. The less I focus on the negative, or watch tv, the better I can see how wonderful this life really is!

  2. scottish girl Says:
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    Hope you feel better soon.

  3. davera Says:
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    Sometimes feeling down is a way that the small still voice within can get our attention to focus on what really matters. Good for you for recognizing this.

    To you and Laura, and for myself, I was contemplating the harsh truth of the wisdom words: "Naked we come into this world, and naked we leave it." All the material possessions and money we accumulate, and our life itself, will be left behind. But the fruits of a loving heart, compassion and generosity are the building blocks of our soul and will cling to us forever.

    Find joy in what really matters, in reaching out to others less fortunate, and in counting your blessings.

  4. North Georgia Gal Says:
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    Sorry you are feeling down. I think we all have those days once in a while. Don't despair, though. You will pull through it.

  5. My English Castle Says:
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    There are days like that, aren't there? My DD asked why I was crying at the president's speech last night. Sometimes there's just so much sadness in the world. I think winter makes it harder too. I like the advice of
    Mark Twain: "The best way to cheer yourself is to try to cheer somebody else up."

    I think I need to bake somebody something today!

  6. ThriftoRama Says:
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    We all have days and months like that. Hang in there. And I recommend eating a plate of chocolate chip cookies. That always works.

  7. Petunia in an OP Says:
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    We are in a period like this too, Laura. I hope the dentist wasn't too bad and you feel better soon. Thrift-o-rama, I think I'll have Daisy start baking and try your method too. Smile

  8. Joan.of.the.Arch Says:
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    Here's a video for you, linked with sincere empathy for you and thanking you for your own empathy.
    Text is http://wimp.com/hugsamsterdam/ and Link is
    http://wimp.com/hugsamsterdam/

  9. Savings Queen Says:
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    Bless your heart. We all have days like that. Just site back, close your eyes and count up your blessings. Usually helps at least a little.

  10. laura Says:
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    Thanks, guys. Thank you, especially, Joan for sharing that video. I cried with relief when the first hugs started (to be honest, it almost plummetted me into deeper despair!) and I kept on crying.

    I survived the dentist. He is a friend of ours and his wife is the hygeniest. It took 1.25 hours for the cleaning, thanks to my gagging reflex and panic. I survived. I need to go back in four months. I need to have wisdom tooth removed. People survive that all the time.

    I am off to have watch a Toddlers and Tiaras with my daughter who is feeling better. And I going to break out a dark chocolate bar (thanks to the bogo coupon from Sunday).

  11. Thrifty Ray Says:
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    So sorry you are experiencing so many heartaches. Hang in there.

  12. CB in the City Says:
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    Aw, take heart. Sometimes bad days like this come along, but they pass,and life goes on. Happy times come again. Be extra good to yourself today.

    I'm afraid of the dentist, too.

  13. patientsaver Says:
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    I had a day like that yesterday. I hope you're feeling better now. I guess it's part of life. Maybe take a good long walk?

  14. Looking Forward Says:
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    We all have days like this. Good to remind yourself of all the good. And yes, chocolate is SO good for helping cope!!! Big Grin

  15. Homebody Says:
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    Prayers to you and yours, and Xanax, how about some Xanax or Ativan for the dentist? Nothing wrong with that! (in my humble opinion anyway)!

    Every week when I go to pain group, I feel so bad because my only real problem is pain, while others have pain and lots of other stuff going on too. Tell DH you are sorry and give your kids an extra hug!

    Hey and remember that site you told me about!!

  16. FrugalTexan75 Says:
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    {{{hugs}}}

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